Once the question has been popped, a girl's mind will start reeling...I need to call Mom, when should we get married, who's going to be in the wedding, where are we going to get married, where are we going to live, when should I buy my dress, what kind of wedding do I (I mean "we") want...and the list could go on and on. This overwhelming feeling that newly engaged girls automatically sense can cause what I like to call "frantic planning". The bride-to-be may jump from one as